| | | | | which they work; not all entrepreneurs own |
| Count Your Blessings - Here Are Some | | | | businesses themselves (though more and more |
| Thought-Starters | | | | are making the decision to be business owners in |
| by Michael D. Hume, M.S. | | | | these times). |
| I've asserted that there are two types of adults | | | | Appreciate your piece of the world. Go outside |
| in our society, especially in America: victims, and | | | | today, take a deep breath, and whisper some |
| entrepreneurs. Victims rely primarily on others; | | | | gratitude for the miracle of this planet. Even if the |
| entrepreneurs rely primarily on themselves, and | | | | weather's crappy out there! Speaking of which.... |
| help others. Victims' attentions are consumed by | | | | Appreciate the weather. I remember many a |
| problems; entrepreneurs solve problems, but | | | | time in the Army when it was cold, or rainy, and |
| focus more on opportunities. Victims are mostly | | | | how powerful it was to imagine it was early |
| critical; entrepreneurs are critical thinkers, but tend | | | | August and how refreshing I would find that rain if |
| to be more optimistic and therefore more | | | | it were... or to imagine Christmas in the Rockies |
| appreciative. | | | | on a particularly steamy August day and think |
| A discouraged entrepreneur can slip into | | | | about how warming I would find that day if it |
| victimhood. True die-hard entrepreneurs are | | | | were. |
| resilient, and can (and must) handle more than the | | | | Appreciate your home. Be it ever so humble, |
| average share of rejection and failure. We've all | | | | there's no place like it. And if you're homeless at |
| heard the stories about how many times an | | | | the moment, you have a great opportunity to |
| aspiring author submitted a manuscript before | | | | gain a new appreciation for having a home - any |
| someone took a chance on her and published the | | | | home. I've been homeless for brief periods, and it |
| blockbuster that many others had pronounced | | | | served as a spark for the entrepreneur within me |
| unpublishable; and we know many other stories | | | | to see that condition as absolutely temporary, no |
| just like that one, from virtually all walks of life. | | | | matter how much the victim in there wanted to |
| But everyone has their breaking point. Too much | | | | embrace my misery as a permanent condition. |
| failure can discourage an entrepreneur and move | | | | Appreciate your friends. More need not be said. |
| her toward more of a victim mentality, and she'll | | | | Appreciate your family. Sure, they drive you nuts |
| go through rough emotional patches in her life | | | | like no one else can. But that's because you love |
| that'll make her more susceptible. | | | | them, and you should never take your ability to |
| I wonder if an encouraged victim can be nudged | | | | love others for granted. Embrace it... appreciate it! |
| toward a more entrepreneurial mindset. I think, in | | | | And they love you too, even if they don't show it |
| many cases, he can. A dedicated victim - one | | | | at times. |
| who's chosen a lifestyle of complaint, negativity, | | | | Appreciate, especially, your Significant Other. Are |
| and outward blame - probably can't change no | | | | you showing your appreciation? Take a minute |
| matter how much encouragement you give him. | | | | today to think about something you can do for |
| But I think there's a spark of an entrepreneur | | | | him or her that shows your love and appreciation; |
| inside almost all of us - I'd say more than 98% of | | | | don't wait for it to be deserved or expected. |
| the population - and part of my inspirational | | | | Even an ex-lover can be appreciated for the part |
| leadership mission is to find those sparks and try | | | | of his or her life they shared with you, even if it's |
| to encourage them whenever and wherever I | | | | easier to focus on the reasons s/he's an "ex" |
| can. | | | | today. |
| Entrepreneurship is a form of inspirational | | | | One more bonus blessing: Appreciate your gripes! |
| leadership. Inspirational leadership requires | | | | Yes, whatever problems you have in life, be |
| encouragement. Encouragement requires | | | | thankful they aren't worse. I distinctly remember |
| appreciation, both of oneself, of others, and of | | | | being a young husband and father with far more |
| life's many blessings. So I encourage you to find | | | | bills and obligations than money and opportunities... |
| ten things to appreciate today. Here's a list of ten | | | | and I remember the struggle between my inner |
| "thought-starters," blessings for which I find | | | | entrepreneur and my inner victim starting to turn |
| myself thankful today, and I hope it helps SPARK | | | | the victim's way. It helped me more than I can |
| some ideas in you. | | | | tell you to truly focus on the fact that everyone |
| Appreciate your health. No matter what it is, it | | | | in the family was healthy... and that something as |
| could be worse, or you wouldn't be able to read | | | | silly as money was truly the only problem I had, |
| or understand this. | | | | and what a blessing it was that I didn't have to |
| Appreciate your age. If you're old, you know so | | | | struggle through caring for someone in a |
| much more than you used to. If you're young, | | | | wheelchair or a bed. That one thought sometimes |
| appreciate your energy and develop your | | | | gave my inner entrepreneur the upper hand. By |
| patience. | | | | the way, if you're caring for someone in a |
| Appreciate your money and your stuff. No | | | | wheelchair or a bed, good for you. Appreciate the |
| matter how poor you are, you're rich... especially | | | | fact that you can, and that they are still with us. |
| in America, where the poorest families tend to | | | | I hope your appreciations outnumber your gripes |
| own things the rest of the world's poor only | | | | today. And if they don't, I hope the struggle |
| dream of. | | | | between your inner entrepreneur and your inner |
| Appreciate your opportunities. If you have a job, | | | | victim starts to swing in the entrepreneur's |
| that's great! It's an opportunity, and many | | | | direction. The more you find to appreciate, the |
| entrepreneurs practice their craft in the employ | | | | more likely that is to happen. |
| of others by helping them build the busines for | | | | |