The Mirror Has Two Faces

As fitness professionals we need to encourageMuch of the reason a person desires a CFT is
not only the physical fitness but also the mentalself-esteem; the individual is dissatisfied with his
fitness. In the psychological arena of life we areher looks and wants to change them; how that
our own worst critics; the mirror does have twoperson came into this state of mind can be many;
faces and unfortunately in most cases the imagemedia, family and/or friends or a spouse. If you
we see looking back at us is grossly distorted.investigate closely, you will probably discover the
We as professionals are morally required to notbasis was created by negativity. THIS is your
only address the physical goals but to alsobiggest opponent! You can prescribe a prefect
educate and modify the psychological goals andfitness routine along with a well balanced diet, but
mindset of our clients. I have noticed in manyif you haven't begun to combat the effects of
cases a person will begin a fitness regimennegativity, THEN ALL IS FOR NAUGHT. Always
without realizing this is not a "quick fix" but ahave a SMALL conservative compliment for your
lifestyle change. After following his/her fitnessclient. Ensure that it is sincere. It can be as simple
prescription for a few days or in some instancesas "Hey, thank you for being on time. I really
a few weeks unaware that their unsatisfactoryappreciate it." Once again, you must begin modest.
state of being did not occur overnight neither willDO NOT target the clients' weak points (areas
the level of expected results. This disillusionment isthat the client states he/she is concerned about).
often followed by reverting back to old lifestyleDoing this will appear as being false, smug, or
habits.arrogant, no matter how sincere you are. In
In some cases the client is successful to a fault;reality, these areas will not change overnight and,
they achieve or exceed their goals yet do notas gently as you can, the client must come to
acknowledge their fruitfulness. Instead their viewsrealize this. The clients' self-esteem has to be
of themselves remain that of their previous stateexercised just like the body. If you noticed, most
thus hence beginning a self destructive downwardgyms are surrounded by mirrors. This is NOT a
spiral eliminating sustenance such as "good" fatscoincidence. Gyms are a breeding ground for
and necessary carbohydrates depleting the bodyself-esteem, but they can be a minefield for
of iron and other valuable nutrients in efforts tothose whose self-esteem is little, weak, or
become more defined.damaged. Convincing your client that improvement
Some persons resort to nutraceuticals such aswill come slow, BUT IT WILL COME is paramount!
diuretics, fat burners, and caffeine or combinationsMake sure they understand that each person's
thereof and some take it one step further bybody is different and that people will always have
employing the aid of steroids and other unsavorydifferent results on the same efforts. Let them
means resulting in a different kind of downwardknow that you did not emerge out of the womb
helix regardless of consequence.in the condition you are in now, and that, with
I believe it is our responsibility as professionals toyour help and guidance, they will achieve their
take a proactive approach to these issues at thegoals as well. Understand that your clients are
forefront of their education by formulating autilizing your knowledge and direction as a vehicle
personalized program for each client based uponof which to arrive at their fitness destination.
their individual, psychological, and physical needs.3. Motivate, Motivate, Motivate!
The mind is the biggest de-motivator in how theIt is amazing what human beings can achieve with
body functions and as fitness professionals wethe right motivation!
are the leaders.Do not just prescribe your clients a routine and
Self-esteem is the cogwheel for the body's desirestand back. Remember, that 5 - 10 push-ups
to achieve and, dependingyou're asking them to do may be easy and
On the motivation it receives, it can either pushhum-drum for you, but it is
the body to excel or it can drag the body toMONUMENTAL for them!! Coach and cheer for
levels of sickness and even death.them! Do not be embarrassed by it! Yes, in your
Ways to combat negativity:mind, it may sound silly, but believe me, the
1: set small but attainable goalsmental fuel you give that person will energize
Set a goal that is within the grasp of the individualthem and will allow them to achieve their goals,
but is attainable through effort. By doing this, youand positive energy rubs off!!
give the client minor achievements and thus startRemember leadership is the ability to influence
the building blocks for greater performance. Aindividuals to accomplish a task by providing
skyscraper is a tall structure and yet, it canpurpose, direction, and motivation. We are the
tumble down with the removal of just one minorexample, let's set great ones!
support.DR.
2: compliment, but don't smother